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A new reference work by James Allister Odd

The Odd Guide to Etiquette and Protocol

A comprehensive reference guide to modern etiquette and official protocol for everyday, formal, civic, diplomatic, religious, family, and digital situations.

Author
James Allister Odd
Publisher
Wexler Publishing Group
Status
In preparation
Cover of The Odd Guide to Etiquette and Protocol by James Allister Odd, showing three silver utensils on white linen
First edition / Wexler Publishing Group
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THE REFERENCE

Preparation makes confidence possible.

The Odd Guide to Etiquette and Protocol combines practical guidance, historical context, constructed examples, cultural preparation, and quick lookup for situations ranging from everyday introductions and shared meals to formal ceremonies and official events.

James Allister Odd developed the guide over more than twenty-five years for his own use and to preserve its lessons for his children before sharing it with a wider readership.

The current first-edition manuscript contains 239 entries across twenty-nine sections, 478 constructed examples, six event-preparation routes, six practical reference pages, forty-three glossary terms, and 1,175 alphabetical lookup terms.

239reference entries
29subject sections
478constructed examples
1,175lookup terms
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WHAT IT COVERS

A working guide for ordinary and official life.

01

Everyday conduct

Introductions, conversation, names, invitations, hospitality, visits, and the small choices that shape ease and respect.

02

Dining and dress

Table settings, shared meals, restaurants, difficult foods, dress expectations, grooming, and event preparation.

03

Work and correspondence

Professional conduct, meetings, written communication, phones, video calls, social media, and shared digital spaces.

04

Family and life events

Partnerships, children, gifts, weddings, illness, funerals, grief, religious occasions, and unfamiliar customs.

05

Access and community

Hosting across differences, disability and access, care responsibilities, community expectations, and respectful preparation.

06

Official protocol

Forms of address, precedence, ceremonies, flags, civic settings, diplomacy, royalty, and institution-specific requirements.

03 / METHOD AND BOUNDARIES

Practical guidance with context attached.

The guide separates manners, etiquette, and protocol; distinguishes constructed examples from historical testimony; and explains the reason behind a practice wherever the record supports one.

Customs and official requirements can change. For a formal event, institution, faith community, or jurisdiction, the host or current official source remains the final authority.

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PUBLICATION RECORD

Confirmed information only.

Title
The Odd Guide to Etiquette and Protocol
Author
James Allister Odd
Publisher
Wexler Publishing Group
Edition
First edition
Formats
Paperback and EPUB in preparation
Status
Publication details will be announced when confirmed.

05 / ABOUT THE AUTHOR

James Allister Odd

James Allister Odd is an investigator, digital-forensics examiner, interdisciplinary researcher, photographer, and author. Across fiction, nonfiction, and reference work, he is concerned with how people prepare, interpret information, and act within systems.